3-Step Process For Building A Social Circle Of Hot Girls

3-Step Process For Building A Social Circle Of Hot Girls



all right what's going on Tripp Kramer here from trippadvice.com coming to you on a Tuesday afternoon live show just fixing the camera here what's up and hello to everyone who's watching this later on today we're gonna be talking about the what do I have here a three-step process that's right we've broken down into many steps but I like to simplify it for you three-step process and how do you build a social circle of hot girls how do you build a social circle of women how do you do this I have some really cool tips for you in a really cool system that I'm going to be teaching you today in terms of how to do that so we're gonna be going over that and I'm here to answer any questions you have in terms of how do you form a social circle and how do you get this going so it's more organic and less forced and we're gonna do that hello everyone yes hello thank you for saying hello what's up sparse jazz seventeen Jumby Lord Kobi what's up guys that's right our Tuesday afternoon show for you in Europe and maybe some of you college kids out there that's right your summer break so what's up so the three step process we're gonna be talking about this like I said going over some things and we're also gonna be taking college so as you see there there's a phone number down below right no it didn't it's always backwards boom there you go there's a phone number right there well I'll be taking calls we'll be answering some calls and we can talk about any questions that are going on with you so we'll go over to that as well I'm not gonna open up the calls yet because first I want to teach you some stuff and then we'll open up the line so I'll let you know when the lines are open and you can give me a call so don't call yet don't call yet because I won't be answering now you also see there's a URL down there this is coached by Tripp calm as you know if you've been watching the lives whether you're lying or you're watching this later that coach might rip calm is a URL that takes you to my coaching application page so if you're interested in getting and receiving coaching one-on-one for me I can help you all you have to do is apply and you apply by going to come by trip comm and so when you apply I will reach out to you if I like your application the way I will like your application is if you are 18 or over and if you have a problem that I believe I can solve so please list out your issues with dating answer the questions in full and if I feel like I can help you I will reach out to you and I will be contacting you over email maybe even texting you so apply today if you have trouble with meeting women trouble with conversation trouble with approach anxiety trouble with physically escalating trouble with avoiding the friendzone anybody's an issue let me help you I help guys every day I have a whole roster of clients that are getting amazing results getting girlfriends defeating their approach anxiety getting over their fear of rejection so I'm here to help you apply coach my trip calm and again will answer your questions today here I'll give you kind of a taste of what coaching is like by answering your questions in just a bit so let's go into it the three-step process into making creating an amazing social circle and as I talk about that I will sip on my massive massive protein shake here this is 1,300 calories in this thing and it's crazy you think you'd get full from it but I'm actually usually really hungry right after I finish it although it does take me like an hour to finish it I mean come on it's 1300 calories 250 grams of carbs and by god it's delicious and no this is not an advertisement because I'm not gonna tell you what brand it is but I love drinking it okay so what's the social circle what is a social circle what does that even mean well a social circle a social circle is basically your friend group it's just a very kind of lame terminology for saying the circle of people that you socialize with hence social circle your friend groups of friends that you have your kind of network of people that you like to spend time with that is on a friendship level now here's the interesting part about this a lot of people if they're not meeting women on online dating apps they're meeting women through their social circle this I mean I don't have stats on this sorry but I'm just gonna say in my opinion from what I've seen from what I've heard being a dating coach for 10 years now I think that the number one way that people meet people is through a social circle I think maybe at work is up there too I don't think it's in the top three maybe in the top five and of course online dating but I'm just gonna scratch online dating for a second I just want to kind of specifically focus on meeting women in person and what are the top ways to do that and I think one of the top ways is meeting women through your social circle so this is already happening in fact I bet you it's happening to you right now I get a lot of questions from guys like yourself that tell me about you know there's this girl that I'm friends with or you know I see her at parties or you know she's she's one of my friends what a lot of guys are already in the friend zone with women so this is a very common scenario that they meet a woman through their social circle the most common two is they get in to the friend zone with this girl so it's kind of like kind of like a shitty situation basically because you're in this social circle and you don't really want to you know make anything weird so you kind of be their friend and then you kind of like cross your fingers and hope that maybe something happens not a good way to go about it okay however if you work and I'm gonna be teaching you how to do this today if you work on building your social circle if you work on building your social circle so you create it meaning you're more proactive you don't just let it happen right a lot of people don't work on creating a social circle yeah they try to make friends but how many people really try to make a number of friends put people together and create a group doesn't happen too often a lot of the time you just kind of let it naturally happen well there's a way that you can hack into this to create a group around you also where you are the center where you are the leader so this is already attractive this is some cool stuff and yes it's not as Oregon her natural as just letting things kind of happen you're gonna be more proactive but I'm gonna teach you how to do it in the most organic way possible where it still kind of works in this organic way and it's not too forced okay so you're gonna be building a social circle and here are the benefits to this okay the benefits to this are that you are going to be making friends making quality friends you're going to be making female friends and then through this process you're gonna have this avenue of meeting new women okay so you're gonna be able to meet women surround yourself with high quality women and then you can have these what's called warm approaches or warm conversations versus cold cold is like okay you go on the street you see a girl on the sidewalk and you want to approach her and say hello warm is she's been introduced to you you know maybe she's at a party and you guys have mutual friends that's more of a warm approach so it makes it a little bit easier to get her to be interested in you were attracted to because she already has that trust because you know someone that she knows and you're not a stranger so there's kind of like pros and cons right it's like the con of the warm approach is just the work it takes to get to that point which I'll be teaching you today but I don't think the hard work should ever be a real con right it's like everything's kind of hard work it's hard work to go up to a woman and on the street and approach or the thing is is the pro of that is well it's faster right it's like very fast process you can leave your house right now see a girl code and say hello and talk to her and it takes two seconds whereas building a social circle getting those warm approaches you have to be a little bit more patience okay so if you have the patience and you you know and hopefully enjoy the process of making new friends and you really are interested in these warm approaches then this three-step process I'm about to teach you is gonna be is gonna be really great for you okay so yeah cool just looking at the chat right now what's up everybody what's up what's up cool so any questions you guys can to a super chat by the way and I'm definitely will answer your question if you do a super chat otherwise we'll open the lines here I know that the phone of it is there people are probably already calling in but I'm not gonna be able to answer because we're not doing that yet but we'll get to it okay so how do you do this what's the three-step process I know we're already eight minutes in and you're probably annoyed that we haven't gotten to it but you needed that kind of whomp to understand what this is all about so the three-step process is this okay so step one step one what you need to do in order to start this process is you need to go out and you need to actually do cold approaches however this is gonna be a little bit different okay a little bit different step one is all about going and doing cold approaches and again this might take a little while I'm gonna tell you this three-step process might take around two to three months but the benefits are awesome so if you're willing to be patient it will work it's gonna take three months because you're gonna have to go out with step one approach people make friends with men and women a little bit more so women so you can have more of a social circle of of you know women around you so you can meet other women and you're gonna be doing these cold approaches and you're gonna be friends owning people so normally I talk about going up and doing cold approaches in the sense where you're gonna be talking to a girl getting her number or you know flirting with her and getting to the point where you're gonna be taking her out this is different you will be collecting numbers you will be flirting with women but you're not gonna be asking them out you might even in that moment let them know that you're just hanging out and meeting trying to meet new friends you know people say oh what do you do not say nothing just hanging out meeting new people making new friends you know something casual like that you don't to be so directives like I am out tonight making new friends okay but you're just being casual about it and you're letting them know that you're not the guy that's gonna be hitting on them I know this sounds kind of counterintuitive fuck what what's the point of going out and getting all these numbers and talking about girls and and then having them come out and then nothing happens like I don't get it okay so this step one will lead to step two but let me talk about step one a little bit more this is a numbers game no pun intended you're gonna be getting numbers but it's a numbers game in the sense where you're gonna be doing a lot of approaches talking to a lot of women and you're gonna be collecting these numbers in the cents or eventually we're gonna move to step two step two is you're going to be texting them to come out to an event okay so that's step two but I still want to go a little bit deeper into step one how does this work like you're gonna be going out how often should you go out I would say you go out at peak times right so you're gonna be going out I would do this usually like a bar or a club or somewhere social already I wouldn't do this like daytime approaches or day game as you might have heard of being called right I would do this in a more social environment so you're definitely talking to people you know are social they go out they like to go out and do things cuz that's the kind of people that you want cuz you're gonna meet up with them and they're gonna be coming out so you're kind of like almost pre-qualifying for people that you know go out and have a good time so you me going out talking to people getting numbers you know using a lot of the skill sets that I teach on my channel and through coaching right where you can apply to coach my trip comm so we teach you how to get social get over approach anxiety and then just have casual conversations with people now in these conversations you're gonna be seeding the idea of hanging out and not with just one girl but the whole group of women that you're talking to so you talk to a group of women or a group of guys and girls you get to know them crack some jokes have some fun show off your personality and then you get to the point in the conversation where you say hey let me grab your numbers every Tuesday Wednesday or Thursday or Monday or whatever and I would pick a weekday and we're kind of approaching step two now where you do some sort of event one of my favorites is doing an event where people come and do trivia another idea would be karaoke so some sort of activity and you make it a weekly event that you and white people – okay so just give it away here step two is you're gonna be inviting people to that event you see the idea in step one and then you were gonna actually in step two text these people and say hey you know don't forget Erlich a was it was great meeting you the other night or last night you should totally come every Wednesday trivia night a bunch of people come out and hang out and you got to be very clear here you're not a promoter okay let them know like you're not like trying to get people to a bar because you make money from the bar this is not the whole thing it's just saying that you get all of your friends together so I would say that like yeah I get I get all of my friends together and come out we have a good time it's not you're trying to promote a specific place okay let them know that okay you should come out meet some of my friends or you'd say every Wednesday night I love going to the trivia night at this bar by the way you can pick there's a lot of bars if you're an in the main city that I was at trivia night you don't have to do trivia night you can even do if it's like worst case scenario you live in a very small town just but could pick a cool spot to a cool bar or a cool spot to go have dinner and you invite a bunch of people out okay so again what I'm saying here is you're collecting a lot of numbers your mass collecting numbers when you go out you go out every week to collect these numbers twice a week if you really want to push this process and then step two is you know a day or two later you invite them and let them know in either a group text you know if you if you get a few numbers and they're all friends just group text them if you end up getting you know separate numbers don't group text separate numbers just like text them separately and invite them out eventually here's one idea is you can then get people who really like coming in a group text to remind them every week like hey don't forget like 7:30 we're all coming data tada you know that it added up meaning just the text message is reminding them where to go and that you guys are still doing it okay well getting to step 3 in just a second but just let me kind of make you understand what's going on here you're gonna have a lot of people who you'll be texting some people will not respond some people will respond and won't be able to make it some people will be able to make it some people will not be able to make it and then come the next time so you can't really expect the best outcome here don't sit here and think wow I'm just gonna go and get it and all these numbers and everyone's gonna want to come but also don't expect the other end – were you're thinking this is lame no one's gonna want to come it's gonna be somewhere in the middle depending on how well you've got to know these people and if you ended up having a connection with them when you first met them also people are looking for stuff to do that's the bottom line like people are bored people are lazy people will not do this scenario here so what you do is you end up being that guy make it really easy for them you all of a sudden to hold a ton of value all because you went out socialize got some numbers and picked a place for people to go so in a sense it can be hard cuz have to go out and socialize and get numbers but technically it's really easy that's the hardest part is making the time to go out and collect the numbers but inviting us people to a spot that's not hard and so you're doing this process people are gonna be coming along and they're gonna love it and they're gonna like you and they're just gonna all of a sudden assume because you're putting yourself in this leadership type role that I mean that you're a cool guy that's kind of that's why I can say it you're just like a cool guy you're an interesting guy you're popular you're a leader this is gonna exhibit a lot of alpha or masculine traits so that you're gonna assume they're gonna assume that you're the man especially when all of a sudden all these people come to this event and everyone knows you you're the center okay you're the center here and then everyone else is around you Center everyone's around you so the commonality is you you're the lowest common denominator here and so women are already gonna be sort of pre attracted to you because it's like who is this guy everyone's always attracted a little bit more to the host of the party right or the person who knows everybody who's connecting people and you also have a lot of value because you're gonna be connecting people and you should you should connect guys and girls don't just invite women and your current friends new friends invite everybody out that you think would be cool and and have a good time and if you introduce people and people introduce each other and their networking with each other maybe you get another guy you know with a girl and they connect each other they're gonna feel they owe you you're gonna have you're gonna to be building up all this value because it's a valuable thing to be connecting people to each other and providing a space to do it all because you just decided to pick a night for you to go out so think about that for a sec mister Hades said if they're bored they'll know who to call exactly because you're the guy right and also you're not taking from anybody you're only giving you know there's promoters there's guys who do this who are promoters for clubs and they offer ton a value because they are you know getting you into the club but there's also something behind it there making money behind it so it's not like this supernatural connection whereas you you're just saying hey I'm providing a space I'm just hanging out you're not asking for anything in return however things will come to you in return this is where step three comes in step three is when you're at these events step three is kind of multi-part right multi-part so it breaks down where you invite people out they come three a we're gonna break this down into a couple parts right step three a you introduce everybody so don't just like make it weird and then people are coming and you're just talking to you know people here people they're like introduce people get people together say hey Rick you know this is Stephanie and hey Stephanie this is Elise and whatever you're introducing people okay be the host go around be the most social person they're also in your texting people let me kind of rewind a little bit to step two when you're texting people you're going to tell them to invite their friends this is not exclusive that's very important by the way this is not an exclusive event of course if you find someone that you don't like and who comes to this event you don't have to invite them again so in that sense it can be exclusive like not everyone has to get the invitation every week that's up to you but in the beginning when you're starting it would tell people to invite their friends don't see like oh only you girls can come you know like tell them to invite more girls this is kind of the point of step three here it's like you want to get more girls there because in step three we're gonna be talking to these new girls and you're gonna have these warm approaches and you're gonna be flirting with them and getting them attracted to you so that's kind of how it all works so don't leave out people of course if you can help it and this might be kind of tough this is one of the other challenges but if you're approaching a lot of girls it shouldn't be a problem you want to make it mostly women like 60 to 70% women okay there's always more value at a party at a club wherever where there's more women involved right so you want to make it so it's a little bit more women than men of course this is sometimes out of your control you can't control who people are gonna invite but do your best okay more women for the guys that you're gonna have there or the other guys that are there also for you so you can see there's anyone that you like or that you're interested in right so you'll be having more women than men introducing people and and again every ratio might be different it depends on like you know what week it is maybe more guys will show up but don't worry about it but as long as you have you know at least half of women there it's gonna be valuable and that's where step three becomes in right 3a is you're introducing everyone 3b is you're introducing yourself to the new people who are coming and what you want to do is if you're interested in any of those girls those can be viable options for girls that you could hook up with get into relationship with whatever so make sure that you really pick choose that choose wisely you know what I mean like if you know that there's one girl who's really cool and she's got lots of friends that she's always bringing don't hit on her right like you gotta be really strong with yourself like try to friendzone some of these women try to friendzone don't try to hit on every single girl cuz it's gonna be obvious anyways all this unlike your just know with all these girls in the social circle so make sure that you're you know picking and choosing wisely when you're going through this process if you do this consistently for about three to four months you will have a social circle of friends you will meet all kinds of cool people hopefully you will be networking you will be meeting girls that you could be with I mean really there's so much value here in knowing people and you're the guy who's in the center at all so it's kind of amazing it's kind of amazing that's pretty much it if you guys have any questions I'm willing to go over but that's this 3-step process and breaking it down I know there's probably a lot of like little questions of you know how do I even meet these people to begin with like I don't even I can't even go up and talk to people how am I gonna start to do this this step one seems like the hardest part and again like I said earlier that's where coaching comes in I can help you with this there's also a lot of videos on my youtube channel and there is my program hooked and get her hooked calm right so we can help you get you to the point where you're going out and meeting these women and making it possible cuz I agree with myself as I said that that is the hardest part right the hardest part is going out and doing these kind of cold approaches to begin the whole process after that it's simple after that it's really simple okay but if you need help let me help you coaching one-on-one is available to you all you gonna do is go to coach buy trip calm apply today and let me help you with this otherwise like I said you have resources and there's ways to do it but now you kind of get like the whole system here right like you get the whole system of you get to the point where you can be comfortable enough to do a lot of approaches step 2 invite them out step 3 host an event where people can come be social and then BOOM profit yes alpha-1 I have tried this I didn't do it as far as where I did it for you know like longer than a few months but I did try it it did work I did this when I was in Los Angeles and it was awesome I wish and when I did it I didn't really know exactly what to do you know I kind of like put pieces together from things I've heard from other people and kind of just made it happen if I were to go back in time I wish I would have done it more in the exact way that I'm teaching it now with more of like a deliberate sense where I didn't really know exactly what I was doing I wasn't like okay I have this whole step processes so what I'm gonna do I kind of just fell into it but I haven't needed to do it since then but I have taught other people how to do it they've done it successfully and it's and it's worked so what I want to do now is I want to open up the lines so you can see there's a number there are three 105 nine eight three three eight four I know people have already tried to call in well the line is open now so if you are interested in calling and and getting any questions answered whether it's about the topic of today or your own situation let me help you if you have a question you want to do a super chat which is the little money sign in the chat and you want to make sure your question gets answered we could do it that way and if no one does any of that how you will pick out a good question that comes in through the chat as well but let me hear from you call in three one oh five nine eight three three eight four and it comes through and we can all hear you and we can talk to you in there help you okay someone's calling hello what is your name age and where you calling from right don't know what happened there lines are open though call in hello what is your name age and where you're calling from hi how you doing this is Sebastian I'm 26 years old and I'm calling from Jersey how you doing I've been listening to you forever I'm glad I get to talk to you today nice man how long is forever ah literally possibly like six years now really six years how good you were yeah I'm 26 okay he's even listening since you were 20 years old and you're still listening so you're still working on this yep yes always always trying to better myself in every single sense hell yeah man well what's your question today how can I help you well so well I want to like touch about the topic that we're talking about today um so once once you got the social circle and everything and then you started dancing on a woman physically and he started making moves and the thing that I struggle with the most is taking them home like the clothes like I don't know if to go direct or to go indirect or like that's the part that I just struggle the most like I just don't know how to tell them straight up like you want to go do this and this you know what I'm saying yeah so the best way you're gonna do this is you're gonna have to have a reason for them to come back with you it makes it a lot smoother so you want some sort of reason for them to come back to you come back to your place maybe that's making some food having some snacks drinking some wine that's always a good one you know like having one more drink and if it's not that then it's I don't know showing them something at your place that you guys talked about while you guys were you know having a conversation I think maybe you think you struggle with is maybe the rejection part some guys are too scared to just go for it but you need to have some sort of reason to bring them back and then you need to just kind of go for it and just ask them have you tried yeah actually so the part that I also struggle with is I still live at home so then you know sometimes like you know I just take them to the hotel so that part is kind of iffy like I don't like to just tell them straight up like oh you want to go to the hotel so what I've been using is that I tell I tell them that my friend owns this property that we could go to and then I just show up there you know and then I and then once I'm there then I sort of like explain it and then it's easier to for me to like get them in the room you know saying so you take them what property is it well I just take him to a random hotel but I I kind of lie to get myself into the hotel you know what I'm saying so when they realize it's a hotel and not a property what do they say they're usually by then like I start like easing it in like oh yeah my friend owns all sort of properties that he leases out or you know stuff like that and I start easing it in and then by the time we get theirs and she kind of has like the idea of like what it actually is and then I get them in the room okay so is this is working for you I'm guessing yeah but it's still like you know it's hard and I wouldn't want like want to like establish a relationship with somebody yeah based on based on a complete lie so why don't why don't you have your own place honestly my mom is it she really needs help like she doesn't work here so I kind of provided I'm from the provider right now my dad left me when I was very young so so like right now that's what I'm doing I'm helping my mom out and I'm paying for rent she's living with world we're living together and I'm helping her out so that's what's going on but what if you try to be what if you tried to make more money I mean does she need to be literally cared for or is it just money so why don't you try to make more money so you can have your own place and then you know have a place that can be her own also and either your place or her place is just a little bit cheaper I mean I think the answer here it's like not the quick and easy fix but really you got to figure out a way to get your own place like and the only way you're gonna be able to do that is by trying to make more money or maybe you don't even need to make more money you just need to put in the work to figure out like where you could live and maybe you can already make it work out but honestly I would try to see if you can get your own place it's gonna be healthier for you it's gonna be good for your mom you know I mean you can always visit her you can always spend time with her but you know as an adult unless she actually needs care which you just told me she doesn't you really shouldn't be living with her I know that you have to at this point financially then I completely get it but the point is you should be working towards a place where you can have your own place and you guys can be separated it's gonna be better for you in the long run so I mean that's my advice you know is you gotta get your own place for those reasons but also so you don't have to keep on lying you can just actually bring women back to your place and a guy who has his own place is very very attractive so all of you other people were listening out there I know that some people live with their parents or they need roommates they live in expensive towns you should try to be striving for living on your own and whatever means necessary to get to that point try by I am so grateful that you are the type of person that you are because you have helped me out so it's like a very long time and you your inspiration to my life honestly and thank you for everything thank you thanks for calling her there to share your kind words man take care good luck the lines are open so we can answer your call well yeah great caller of course always appreciate the kind words I hope that he can figure this out you know it's interesting how he has connived a way to to get a girl to come back with him to his friends property which happens to be a hotel and somehow it's working but as you can see but even though that works doesn't make you feel too good right it's like it's like oh I'm just lying here it would be cool if I didn't have to lie hey man what's up was your name age where you're calling from hello can you hear me hear me hello hey can you hear me sounds like a kid sounds like you can't hear me can you all right we lost him lines are open again but as I was saying you start to feel incongruent like with who you are so yeah maybe you can lie and then like cool you get to have sex with a girl would it be cooler if you could have sex with a girl and just be real and just be honest and who you are I'll just answer that for you yes like it's gonna feel better you're gonna feel more congruent more in touch with who you are more confident otherwise you're gonna be playing this weird role and you're gonna feel manipulative and you're gonna feel like who the hell am I like it's not gonna feel good it's like this word quick fix we're like you cool you've tricked a girl in there getting sex with you so you've lied to get there but it feels so much better when you can actually just be more natural not have to lie go from there amen you're on the air what's your name age and where you're calling from hi Tripp my name is Geoffrey I'm calling from Cleveland I'm gonna be 34 this September awesome man what's going on what's your question so um I I just got into the country like 2015 and I've been here like I've been here worked my way I'm staying on my own I've had a few relationships and I kind of messed the last one up so I got a job right now I'm trying to make things work for myself but the job I have right now it's not giving me a chance to like be social because I'm a professional truck driver so I Drive local but I technically have two days off and when I need to go back I'm being called in so right now since I'm doing this in the cutting the and the city I'm not really sure exactly where it is to go out to meet people what's the times when I go to the store if I see a lady I try to say hi you know um try to see for good I mean it up and do stuff but it's kind of hard so I'm trying to see if there's a best way or go way for me to like incorporate things with my schedule and see how where to go how to meet good girls so what is your schedule let's break it down what is your schedule when can you go out be social okay usually my off days are Mondays and Tuesdays so I go back to work like early in the morning on Wednesday like 2:00 3:00 a.m. 4:00 so technically I'm back on Sunday at night and I have to go back to work like on Wednesday in the morning early in the morning so your weekend is Monday Tuesday that's their Saturday Sunday is that what you're saying yeah yeah so and it sucks cuz usually life technically over here is all about in the weekends no one really does stuff on Mondays on Tuesdays there's got to be someplace you're in Cleveland there's got to be someplace I know it's not gonna be like being in a bigger city but there's got in some places that you can go that are open honest day Monday and Tuesday where you can go out and you can socialize it's not gonna be as busy as a Friday or Saturday you know or a Thursday night but there has to be some places so I would challenge you to find those places and just make the best of it okay like that's your only option other than that I would can if you really want to if you're really trying to prioritize having a social life I would I would suggest moving to a new city if you know I don't know how much how much ties you have to Cleveland I don't know if your family's there if you even care if you have a lot of friends there but if you don't have a lot of ties to Cleveland and you can do what you do in another city a bigger city like Chicago is really close New York is close of course you can pick anywhere you want if possible I would consider moving so I think those are your best options either step one try to find places that you can go and meet people to be social on Sundays Mondays and Tuesdays you could also approach women during the week it's not really a social setting it's more just you know talking to women who are out and about and if that's not working for you and it's a dead City and you're not tied to the city I would consider moving what do you think ah yeah is this is this that I just I was working in corporate when I like I've been moving working in corporate I've been trying to like make better myself since I came here so I moved from corporate that wasn't paying me that much and now went to school got my truck driving things so I just started the truck driving thing this year like January so I just started this so I'm making good money for myself and I'm thinking okay with this extra money I'm making I might I should try to be social and go out but when I try to want to go out usually the best place or best things to do everybody's always off on the weekends no one's technically you're off on a Monday when everybody's going to work or coming back from work nobody wants to do anything you know so but there will be some people I know that a majority of people won't but they're half to be some people there has to be some spots that you can go to where people are out it's gonna be a lot harder for you in the winter or it might be like close to nobody but if you're in the summer fall even late spring there should be places that you can go to on those days mmm what do you think yeah I think III I mean I really need to do that I've been thinking about the moving but I wanted to like get situated to a point where I can save up then moving somewhere else would be easy I could just up a need so that's no more you because there's no yeah there's no like magical answer here it's like we have to get you out and find you know and find and find spots for you to meet women so another option is for the next six months save up a ton of money should be yeah in that city – it's probably not a very expensive city like save up like an extreme saving you know and you can look this stuff up online there's like ways of doing extreme savings so you're just saving crazy or never eating out you're never buying you know expensive alcoholic drinks out you know you're really saving your money hardcore and with all that money then you move to a new city in six months and then from there that you can be in a city that's gonna be more social and then in these six months you can kind of figure out what it's gonna take for you to go to another city so you take the six months to save all the money and then you save all the money and then in that six months you figure out what's gonna be another city that you can do whatever your work is and then boom you move to a new city you got all this money which gets you a good place you know gets you able to give you money for padding to go out and be social and then you're in a more social space so I would say that's probably your better move so I like that you said that you know just kind of saving up and then making all this money and then moving to a new city and you just take this time to figure out where you're going to do that all right what do you think yeah that's that's a that's a good idea thank you very much I I follow your stuff I've listened to you audiobooks I listen to your podcast I'm a big fan so I was just going to my YouTube and it popped up saying oh you are not on your life I mean I might as well just pop up and what happened no now we're on the phone talking to each other huh very much like what you do you're welcome and listen I would suggest and I don't suggest this to everyone who calls but you should apply for coaching you should apply for coach yeah so we can help you I did dive in more I did so I'm trying to I'm trying to set up I'm trying to set up a way to like come back called in and found out what it takes so I'm trying to like did you how did you apply and the application form yes I did what's your idea again i Jeffrey Jeffrey the last name is RW uan when did you apply ah I'd say months ago I didn't month ago okay do me a favor right now apply again because I get so many applications is probably buried at this point not sure why I missed it but apply again and then we'll reach out to we'll see we can get you some help okay all right awesome and take care sweet okay someone asked tripping need good spots in LA malls be dead around me and no girls alone 3rd Street Promenade Abbott Kinney Ocean Boulevard Melrose Avenue Hollywood Boulevard those are all the daytime spots nighttime you're gonna have to figure that out it changes a lot in LA I'm not in LA right now by the way a big Chicago I moved just a year ago and a lot of people think I'm still in LA but I'm not there anymore Long Beach is probably great but it's by far if you're living in LA hello you were on the air what's your what's your name age you weren't calling from you don't want to hit my car what someone just called in and said I hit their car I don't even own a car oh that guy probably meant you know when I had that baseball bat and I was I was hitting someone's car I do that once in a while just kidding that doesn't happen Adam wickersham's in the house what's that man hello you were on the air what is your name age where he calling from my name is Rafael I'm 22 and I stay in Fort Worth Texas what's up man how you doing what's your question I'm doing good man I get to hear your voice actually I'm actually uh I've been watching you since 2014 and whoa that's a long time well duh 2014 that's a long time since so five years yeah I think my first video I ever put hours to the August 2012 so Wow yeah man very valuable stuff and I appreciate that you know take your time and and do this stuff for us pick up pick up stuff and like what am i you got other guys when I watches a rush B I hope you've heard of him yeah I pretty much heard of everybody yeah well like I really uh I like doing that I like going out all night I've been doing pretty good I you know so far like I've been I've been learning a lot and I was just wondering if you could maybe recommend something that I can like I can do and us like like financially but also like stay in the game because it is a little expensive going out every weekend and I was wondering if there's a way that I can like work on my game but also like make money while doing it what do you mean make while doing it I mean I can I can teach them how to go out and make it cheap and not spend any money while you're going out and learning how to meet women but what do you mean making money okay because I love the lifestyle man I love doing it I love challenging myself and well I was wondering if I can like like if there's a way to like make it like a career like sound like how you do it but like also finding my own niche so you want to become a dating coach I wouldn't I wouldn't say dating coach like like that you know is there like other avenues I can take or well it's kind of hard to answer the question because you're obviously not clear and what it is that you want to do so you got to get clear more on what you want to do or who you want to help or what problem you want to solve so when it comes down to making money any company in the world that makes money or any person that makes money that's working for a company is solving a problem money is exchanged in terms of value and value is usually solving some sort of problem so that can be anything you know even down to like entertainment like a movie it's not solving a problem but it kind of is the problem it's solving is people are born they need something to do so they solve the problem of here's entertainment right that's just an example of something that might be kind of confusing with suffering problem obviously you know you can sell straws that solves a problem how do you you know have something that you can drink that is not gonna get all over your mustache right and you have a straw so my point is is if you have some sort of problem that you can solve that's the way that you can make money someone someone said open a nail salon so also it depends on what it is that that you that you're passionate about right so I give you're passionate about something and you like something and it also combines with solving a problem that's that's like the best to be in right cuz you're gonna be really excited to do whatever it is that you're gonna do that's gonna solve that problem I feel like I got lucky and doing that because I'm really interested in helping men with dating and relationships and sex and socializing I love it I'm passionate about it and it's solving a problem so if you can kind of and you might not have this right now in this moment it might be something for you to think about but that's my best advice in terms of what can you find that you really enjoy that also solves a problem marry those two and then you can be making money of course there's you know more business things you have to learn in terms of how to start a business and things like that but that's kind of like step one I love it I love it man I appreciate that I didn't think about it like that in those terms yeah yeah think about it like that well I appreciate you trip I wish the best look for you in your business cool man thanks for calling I appreciate you calling in and keep watching man I love that you've been watching since 2014 you're the man yes sir all right take it easy take care buddy I love it good question we have not had a question like that I know that's kind of different than giving your basic dating advice but but I wish him lots of luck we got some time left I can take a few more callers so if there's anyone else who wants to call in I can answer your questions I can also do a super chat Adam Wickersham I see you every single time how have you not applied for coaching yet man you're always here you said any advice for wingmen and can you break down what their job is yeah a wing man's job is to basically if economic men is to distract the other women while you're or I should say taking the attention away with the friends so you can talk to the woman that you're interested in and have more alone time connection time with it's basically the job what's up man you're on the air what's your name age where you calling from my name is either I'm 26 calling from LA Caesar from LA nice man I used to live there how's it going good kind of just like I'm settling into my new lifestyle and trying to you know kind of pick up my life because I wasn't really doing shit for a long time and so now that all comes in to meeting new different types of people and the type of people that I was hanging around with that you know like I've never been a big drinker so like meeting girls at bars it just doesn't even intrigue me you know sir or having ordered like even knowing the best social settings know for all that you know then like everyone else is asking about the money like huh you want to make a good impression by smoking a decent amount of money on someone but at the same time you don't want to break your back like spending money that type of money on every single person he met huh so I'm knowing that boundary yeah well here's my thoughts of my thoughts on that you want to hear some of my thoughts on that yeah yeah so okay money is coming up a lot in this on this episode okay first things first you don't need to drink and you don't need to spend money to go out to meet women you can literally do this for free the only exception would be maybe tipping your bartender when you get a club soda or some water so you're not wasting their time a couple bucks maybe there's a cover charge at a club other than that you don't need a drink I'd say the most the best superpower you could have is to be able to go out and meet women in your most raw and natural state which would be sober so I highly suggest that that's what you do okay is you go out me women's silver and you don't need to spend money and you can even go out during the day and approach women not spend any money you can go on tinder I think tinder is free and you don't have to spend any money okay so bottom line is you don't need to spend money there you also don't need money to impress women you want money so that you could have money to solve your own problems you want money for access right if you have more money you can add more access to things you can go more places you can travel more places if you have money you can solve your own problems maybe it's gonna be a way to be more mentally healthy by going to therapy physically helped with healthy by joining a gym by eating really healthy foods that are sometimes really expensive right so there's all these hold on there's all these reasons why you want to have money for yourself but what's cool is a byproduct of that is you're going to be potentially meeting really high quality women because you're treating yourself high quality also more money means you can have your own place so don't try to get money to impress women or buy cars to impress women or get a fancy shirt that you think is gonna impress a woman you make money for yourself and then that in turn and a byproduct might get you access to more women but you don't even need to be rich to meet high-quality women you don't have to be so I'm very Pro making money okay I'm a capitalist like I want you to make lots of money for yourself if you can but don't do it for women you do it for you will your thoughts mmm that's actually the way I had been living my life for a long time and so I have been mostly focusing on myself and my own personal life and recently I got in like a really decent promotion so I'm in this space now we're like I'm going to the gym because I have keys in my job I can go whenever I want like I I eat but I eat organic now because I mean like I've noticed how much I feel better and they're like little things like that so I've been improving my life in those small steps so now I'm kind of like alright now I have I still had a little bit of money that you know I can go have fun with but I got a treat here again you know so and then being around a bunch of drunk people with bite I don't know it's ideal yeah and if you don't want to do that then just meet women during the day you're like yeah that's the harder part for me though cause it's like like most most cute girls are out with their guys and then I don't know I ask useful time that's an excuse there's women out there especially in LA or in a big city there are plenty of places during the day where you can go out and meet women I mean there's it's it's endless and every single day too because a lot of people are unemployed or they have jobs where they work at night or they're actors or writers or whatever I mean LA is probably one of the best places in the country to meet women during the day like hands down I could not pick a better place okay so I mean where should where should I be hanging out during the day then so for LA if you want to meet women during the day yeah Abbot Kinney 3rd Street Promenade Melrose generally anywhere in Santa Monica main street Beverly Center is kind of okay that mall Hollywood Boulevard anywhere down Fairfax or La Cienega Whole Foods I mean I just give you a ton of places all right all right sure sound good man yeah you got this buddy I know it's gonna be hard it's harder to meet women during the day but but don't give up okay all right all right all right dude all right guys what a show what an episode look at that Oh bottom line is this shit's hard nothing's gonna come easy but because it's hard the rewards are great it's hard to meet women during the day it's hard to build a social circle of hot girls things are difficult things are challenging but as you start to do it it becomes easier and easier and easier so highly recommend that you put your best foot forward and try it and of course I'm here to help you if it's too hard and you need that assistance that push that encouragement that feedback the motivation apply for coaching go to coached by trip comm and apply and I can help you and we can get to the point where you are successfully meeting and attracting women during the day and night wherever yes of course there is an investment for it so it's not free this is free though coming on and doing this but coaching is something that you invest in and when you do that it makes it easier for you to get the results so thanks Stephen appreciate that guys I'm going live tomorrow at 6:30 central let's do it again I'm ready for you okay tomorrow 6:30 central going live we'll talk with a new topic we'll get into it I'll answer questions we'll go from there you guys are great thanks for joining me I will see you next time

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